This amazing story about good humor (and good grace) from one of my motivational speaker friends, Barbara Glanz.
In short, the story is about how civilian travelers voluntarily gave up their first class seats to the soldiers flying on board a commercial airliner. It’s hard not to feel good about it.
Check out this excerpt:
…Another young lady was seated in that row, and he was able to hear a bit of their conversation. The young man told her that he had just finished a tour in Iraq, was coming home on leave, and then would go back in several weeks.
As they were talking, a woman who had been seated in First Class, came back to the young man’s row, introduced herself, and asked him for his Boarding Pass. A bit puzzled, he handed it to her, at which point she, in turn, handed hers to him. She said, “I would like to trade seats with you.”
The young man immediately responded, “Oh, no, Ma’am, I couldn’t do that.”
She smiled a huge smile and said, “Oh, yes, you can, Soldier. It’s an order!”
So, as everyone around wiped teary eyes, the young man reached up for his backpack and went up to sit in First Class.
Read the entire story here.
What’s my point? We all have it in us to create happiness. And the amazing thing about creating happiness for others is that we end up happier ourselves. Sure, those soldiers felt great to be upgraded and recognized. But the individuals who traded seats with them — I imagine — felt as good or better. They knew they had been kind, and then knew they made a difference.
When you go out of your way to create joy or humor, and when you consciously make the people around you happier, the unavoidable result is more happiness for yourself.
In other words, it doesn’t matter how selfless you are, you end up getting as much as you give. Magic. And it’s very, very cool.
Next time you’re having a crappy day, GIVE some happiness. Buy the stranger behind you a cup of coffee at Starbucks. Anonymously send a drink to a young couple in a restaurant. Or make a point to give somebody who never expected it a compliment. “I like your shoes,” goes farther than you probably think. (With some people, it goes REALLY far.)
Want to be happier? Then make somebody else happy. I guarantee it will work.
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